This is a book about self-discovery and self-love. Learning that God made us all uniquely perfect and that in our uniqueness we can change the world. Beauty is not defined by cultural belief nor by what society deems acceptable it is defined by what is in your heart that radiates out to all who see you. Untia D. Bigelow is a 46 year old mother of five and grandmother of four who has had a long career as a librarian who works directly with volunteers and the Friends of the library. She is the CEO of Loveafter40ish a company designed to help adults navigate through love and relationships in their later years of life. She is an ordained minister at her local church and is head of the youth department. She has been published in an award winning journal and has won awards for her poetry. She wants to help all children to embrace their uniquely different cultures, skills, and beauty so they can help change the world! Loving life is a commitment you have to make daily.