Unexpectedly good. I was sceptical due to the book being based on American society/children/research, however the parenting strategies were very practical and relevant to any child whether “spirited” or not. I have been recommending this book to friends, and I will definitely be re-reading it. The author moves away from authoritative parenting and focuses on working with your child's temperament and with your own temperament. It looks at bedtime, mealtimes and everything in between. I am using the strategies very successfully and our household is much calmer and in control.