J'Toya reached her "wits end" and did not spare any feelings while expressing her frustration in this book. Societal issues and what she deems as ignorant or immature actions led to her mental earthquake and she hopes that the reader will agree that issues in this book usually irritate the average person. J'Toya is a firm believer that if more people would write or talk about their feelings that it would keep a lot of them off of legal and prescription mind altering drugs and alcohol and lessen the need for psychiatric visits. This book is not for the holier than thou and is not meant to have a negative influence on minors. Warning: The language in this book is harsh and vulgar. Take the ride if you dare and then exhale afterwards.