As a woman we desire to be loved and would sometimes compromise ourselves simply to not be alone. Finding Her reflects that moment where the threat of loneliness overshadowed rational thought and lead to a path of devastating heartbreak. Because being alone could often feel more scary than being unloved. It's a familiar story about a woman ignoring her intuition, but instead gets into bad situationships. One almost cost her life. But it is not just a memoir of a painful past. This tale has a happy ending and a great lesson to follow. Although the memories are uncomfortable it is necessary to reflect upon them for healing. The author takes you on an introspective journey to her freedom by asking herself hard questions to help mend her brokenness. She also leaves a road map for others to follow with scripture, questions, and opportunities for reflection. This is a great book for women's studies group, battered women, teenage girls, mothers and anyone curious to know how to go from hurt to health. It is a quick read, but the process takes time to complete and should not be rushed.