- Knowing and using proper manners helps all of us feel confident in both formal and informal settings - Personal self-esteem and true character shine when manners are practiced on a day to day basis - Serving as role models, we set a standard of excellence when we use proper manners. - Honoring our family and community heritage results from following time honored etiquette models Pam Behling Known as the MaMa Bear at Deer Creek Camp where she shares "manners that really matter" with campers each morning. Retired high school English teacher, wife of over 50 years, mother of two boys and three grand-daughters. MaMa Bear has a passion for animals, mountain climbing and personal character building in both youth and adults.