The change in my life had nothing to do with giving up smoking, drinking, or drugs. I never did any of those. This is the story of my life; read what I feel. I was told to change immediately, or else, by a visit to a doctor. I did not like the "or else". It scared me. It was as simple as A-B-C, what I had to change immediately all because of one visit. He changed my life completely in five minutes and to this day! I felt I had no choice. I was just tired. I remember standing there in shock. I was twenty-four. I was making my life complicated? No. I was just serious. I hope to encourage (Us Girls) to use their talents and "Go-For-It." I feel sometimes the world expects only men to accomplish anything. Skip around; read what you want. I feel, if one pearl of wisdom helps even one of us girls, it is worth the effort to write it as I mentioned and share what I feel are - "My Pearls of Wisdom"