The Real Men Formula The phrase REAL MEN is an acronym for: Respect - Emotions - Appreciation/Affection - Listening- Manners- Earnings and Neatness. The Formulation for Real Men came about because of these aspects of a man listed above. I tried to make this formula as simple to remember as possible. Yes, it may be simple, but it is a very important piece in a successful relationship. Throughout my experiences, I have established that these qualities were top issues and very important to all women. It doesn't matter what the woman's background, economic level, race, or religion, they all desired a man that possessed these qualities. Study this formula, put it into action, and your woman will worship you.