Not all pregnancy is conceived as planned! Some women are unable to acquire the usual way with their spouse. Many times adoption is the only way to fulfill the woman's desire to have a child. This process can be lengthy and have to jump through many hoops. This book is not about how to do that process. If adopting, you might purchase this book and give it to the expecting mom to fill out.I wish I had written a book while pregnant for each child. This is important not for myself but for the child. It allows them to see the struggles and what all as a woman goes through. My daughter could have gleaned valuable information about not getting pregnant right after giving birth to her second child. My son would have understood more of what his wife was going through and how she felt while pregnant. Either way girl or boy the information that you relay in this pregnancy diary will be helpful for all.