That's Why This Marriage Ain't Gonna Last

What if one phrase could shift the entire trajectory of your marriage?

In That’s Why This Marriage Ain’t Gonna Last: A Practical Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, authors Varetta Stevens Huggins and Graeme Huggins share the transformative story behind their personal trigger phrase, a bold declaration that sparks daily commitment, intentional growth, and deeper connection.

Far from a warning, this phrase becomes a tool for reflection and renewal. Through candid storytelling and actionable insights, the Huggins guide couples through the real-life challenges of marriage with wisdom, humor, and faith. This book offers a practical roadmap for navigating:

Conflict resolution with grace and mutual respect
Emotional and spiritual oneness rooted in shared purpose
Authentic communication that fosters empathy and understanding
Sexual Intimacy as pathways to deeper trust
Financial stewardship as a foundation for unity

Whether you’re newly married, seasoned in your journey, or seeking restoration, this guide equips you with tools to build a lasting, fulfilling relationship. With each chapter, couples are invited to embrace growth, lean into love, and discover the power of intentional words.

Let That’s Why This Marriage Ain’t Gonna Last become your unexpected catalyst for lasting change-and a daily reminder that love is a choice worth fighting for.

Author Biography

Varetta Huggins is an Entrepreneur, International Speaker, Success Coach, and Published Author. She holds a Bachelor of Science in Computer Science from Hampton University and a Master of Science in Information Systems Technology from George Washington University. She is currently pursuing a Ph.D. in Counseling & Psychological Studies with a concentration in Marriage & Family Ministry at Regent University.

Varetta is co-author of the book, That’s Why This Marriage Ain’t Gonna Last: A Practical Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, a Christian Autobiography filled with Faith-based teachings and personal life story reflections.

Varetta is currently working on other relationship books and a biography of a Government official.

Varetta has been happily married for over 30 years and is a proud parent to a young adult son, a teenage daughter, and a teenage son. She has served her local churches, leading dynamic ministries for Juniors, Teens, Young Adults, and Couples. As a co-leader of the Couples LifeGroup at Hampshire View Baptist Church for over five years, Varetta organized memorable and transformative Couples’ Date Nights, Conferences, Cruises, and fellowship activities to build and strengthen relationships. She has mentored and counseled juniors, teens, young adults, and couples.

Graeme is co-author of the book, That’s Why This Marriage Ain’t Gonna Last: A Practical Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, a Christian Autobiography filled with Faith-based teachings and personal life story reflections.

Graeme has been happily married for over 30 years and is a proud parent to an adult son, a young adult son, a teenage daughter, and a teenage son. He has served his local churches, leading dynamic ministries for Juniors, Teens, Young Adults, and Couples. As a co-leader of the Couples LifeGroup at Hampshire View Baptist Church for over five years, Graeme has spoken weekly to couples and counseled couples.

Graeme serves as the Chairman of the Deacon Board and Treasurer at Hampshire View Baptist Church, Girls Varsity Basketball Head Coach at New Life Christian School, and CEO of Graet Advice LLC. He earned his Bachelor of Business Administration in Accounting from Mount Senario College, graduating Cum Laude. A former Academic All-American Basketball Player (2000, 2001), Graeme also led his team to the Final Four in 1998. With over three decades of experience in Accounting, Tax Preparation, Bookkeeping, and Payroll, he serves a diverse clientele that includes small businesses, non-profits, churches, and individuals. In addition to his financial expertise, Graeme brings over 25 years of excellence in basketball coaching and holds multiple certifications in coaching.