This was recommended to me as a book for that will also cover rape victims within a defacto relationship. I have never seen a book for partners, and it covers so many scenarios, that you can recognise your actions and fears in the book. For you and your partner This book is for anyone in any sort of relationship with an abuse survivor, – whether it is your partner, parent or best friend. I would also recommend it to survivors who want to see it from their partners point of view. It is a way to get you both talking constructively. You can read through the book together and take on board what you need to.