The only advice I feel comfortable giving to anyone is to accept God's gifts. They are out there. You just have to pay attention to what is going on around you. I give this advice not because I always paid attention, but while writing this book I realized what God has given us and that He has always been there, whether we thought so at the time or not. It would be nice if I could tell you that I had some very altruistic motives for writing this book, but I didn't. However, I did find it very comforting to write, and in doing so, filled a tremendous void in my life since Lynda died. It gave me a good reason to get up each morning. Having completed it, I hope that our life story might help other families going through similar trials.