Behind the Zipper." J'Toya Nelson worked predominantly with men and she would sometimes listen to their conversations to try and debunk the myth that they don't care about who gets behind their zippers. They claimed that they do care about their relationships and are concerned about sexually transmitted diseases and women who stalk and cause drama. Several of them admitted that getting behind their zipper a second time can be difficult if they've settled down and are finally looking for the woman who does it for them. A lot of women are not serious either. Many of them are nasty and are only there to be used when times get tough or just for some quick fun. A man usually doesn't respect or trust a woman to be faithful to him if it was easy to get under her skirt or easy for her to get behind his zipper. J'Toya was shocked to learn that many of her male friends had those standards. Hopefully bitter & doubtful women who only scorn and doubt men will get something out of reading this book. Take care.