Most contests are a series of close calls that are decided at the margin. To succeed, you need to do the little things that increase your chances of winning a disproportionate share of the toss-ups. In thinking about successful individuals, three focus areas surface - relationships, resilience and renewal. Successful folks tend to their relationships by being an attractor; they overcome obstacles with resilience by embracing the crookedness of life; and they practice a habit of constant renewal by living to learn. This enables them to win at the margin. Get-Real Mindset provides simple but impactful ways for an individual to change their behavior and/or their thinking to increase the odds of success in life or in business.