Elena Lesser Bruun, EdD, LMFT, is Clinical Associate Professor of Psychiatry at the New York University School of Medicine. She is an American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) Clinical Member and Approved Supervisor, and a past president of the New York State division (NYAMFT). She practices in Manhattan, where she sees individuals, families, and couples, an ever-increasing number of them premarital. Her Web site is www.elbtherapy.com. Anne F. Ziff is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She divides her time between New York City, and Westport CT. An AAMFT Approved Supervisor, she is Assistant Clinical Professor, Psychiatry, at the Mt. Sinai Medical Center, NYC, teaching Family Systems and supervising cases. Ziff writes, lectures, leads workshops, and practices with individuals and couples emphasizing family systems issues including communication, loyalty, power, sex, love, fair fighting, and potentially perilous life transitions. She is recognized for her non-adversarial approaches to negotiations and her passionate desire to catalyze a reduction in divorces.