Outspoken silence was created examining the underlying and obvious deficiencies suffered in relationship building today. The subliminal and often overlooked messages through the lack of or poor communication is addressed through this writing. Encouraging and emphasizing relationships and marriage development from and with an introspective as well as rationalized approach. The answers to questions and concerns with respect to the success and failures pertaining to the building up of solid relationships, which subsequently may blossom and continue through marriages, are mainly counseled or referenced through external sources. While this phenomenon may be natural and realistic, it has also become a crutch or inhibits potential and growth for those who may be immature or inexperienced. Those who may lack the pioneering and innovative abilities to be trend setters and, unfortunately, those who just readily accept status quo when it comes to the relationships we choose to invest in. Examining the individual and unique experiences (be it good or bad) we may each encounter, helps us to individualize our circumstances, and draw inference to what may be a first-time occurrence, or simply just a once-in-a-lifetime event. Examining oneself is not as easy as you may think. Self-criticism and assessment is often the hardest thing one can do, but it is often the most rewarding, because the changes implemented, when we do it for the better not only do you become a better person, the world inadvertently becomes a better place, because of the relationships and connections you are now able to build and establish. God's word shows us how to be the best us. Too often we stray from his teachings and become a person unrecognizable to ourselves, and unfortunately, to others. But if we love our selves, truly love ourselves, while promoting this love through respect for others. The way God designed us to and instructs us through his teachings. We would experience healthier and more promising relationships.