Relationship is the natural state of being human and is fundamental to everyone's experience of being known, valued and fulfilled. So how is it that many relationships which begin with love or friendship turn sour ... or even collapse? After leading seminars for 40 years to more than 100,000 participants, Lon and Sandy Golnick, founders of RelationshipByDesign(TM), have the answer. For the first time in book form, Lon and Sandy disclose hidden truths about the nature and design of relationship and illuminate previously unseen mechanisms that undermine all relationships. Relationship: The Real Deal is your opportunity to break free of these relationship killers so you can have the freedom and insight needed to design a future for your own relationship, unfettered by what has happened in the past.