TAMIKA Z. DILLARD IS A SURVIVOR BY THE GRACE OF GOD AND SHE FEELS AS THOUGH SHE WAS SENT BY GOD TO GIVE A MESSAGE. FROM BEING MOLESTED AS A CHILD AND SUICIDAL, TO OVERCOMING AND BEING A SURVIVOR. SHE BELIEVES THAT THERE IS A PURPOSE FOR HER LIFE. TAMIKA FEELS AS THOUGH SHE SURVIVED IN ORDER TO SHOW YOU HOW TO MENTALLY SURVIVE PAINFUL MEMORIES AND FLASHBACKS. SHE IS MARRIED TO CORY DILLARD & THEY ARE BLESSED PARENTS OF THREE AWESOME YOUNG MEN THAT THEY LOVE MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF. TAMIKA WORKS FULL TIME AS AN OPERATIONS REPRESENTATIVE IN LOGISTICS AT CH ROBINSON, AND SHE WORKS PRN AS A CNA MENTOR WITH WELLSPRING HOME CARE, WORKING ONE ON ONE WITH THE ELDERLY POPULATION. SHE IS ALSO A CURRENT STUDENT AT GUILFORD TECHNICAL COMMUNITY COLLEGE. TAMIKA LOVES SERVING OTHERS, THAT'S A TRAIT PASSED DOWN FROM HER MOTHER; THEREFORE HER CAREER FITS HER LIFESTYLE PERFECTLY. SHE ATTENDS GREATER CLEVELAND AVENUE CHRISTIAN CHURCH IN WINSTON SALEM, NC UNDER THE LEADERSHIP OF BISHOP SHELDON MC CARTER, AND SHE WROTE THIS BOOK WITH HOPES THAT HER TRANSPARENCY WILL SAVE A LIFE AND/OR A MARRIAGE.